- Wedding Ideas & Advice for the Couple, Wedding Party and Guests
A Maid of Honor's Toasting Guide: Tips on Making the Most of the Toast.
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The wedding day toast is traditionally the responsibility of the best man. At modern weddings, however, it is common for the newlyweds and guests to receive several toasts. In addition to the best man, it is acceptable for the maid of honor, the groom, or any other VIP’s to offer a few congratulatory words.
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Ever increasing is the popularity of the maid of honor toast. Since she is the best man’s “other half” it makes sense for her to offer the female perspective. Plus, while the best man may focus on the groom, the maid of honor will probably offer the greatest insight into the bride. Either way, it can be refreshing to hear two different perspectives on the newlyweds—from their childhood dreams and personalities to their first impressions of each other.
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A Special Delivery
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Beat performance anxiety with these three P's:
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Preparation -
Write it all down and practice beforehand. You don’t want to read your speech, so keep only your key points in front of you on the big day.
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Personality -
Don’t try to be something you’re not. If you are generally humorous, by all means, tell a joke. But don’t think that you have to be funny. Your speech should be as individual as you are, reflecting your personality and style.
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Pithiness -
(Yes, this is really a word!) In other words, keep it short. Your speech should be 3-5 minutes long.
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To the Bride and Groom:
If you would like the maid-of-honor (or anyone else) to make a speech, let her know at least a month in advance. Since some people fear public speaking more than they fear death, she may need time to prepare and adjust to the idea!
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